Someone You Can Build a Nest In

Silvie

Sweet, funny, and monsterous

"I adored this book! And recommended it to a lot of friends and coworkers, which I rarely do. When asked to describe this book, it prompts a moment of hesitation. I have been saying it is cozy, gory, humorous, queer romantic fantasy-horror, and I'm probably missing something 😂 Shesheshen is a fantastic narrator who has some amazing and hilarious, sometimes poignant, one-liners, and the author uses her foreign perspective to draw attention to the illogical ways humans behave in an endearing and pointed way. While it is campy and cute and fun, this book does have more serious themes, sometimes interjected unexpectedly. Narcissistic parental relationships, and emotional and physical abuse are covered well, as well as the trauma they can leave survivors with. I could see this book being less popular with neurotypical folks who haven't gone through abuse, or known anyone who has, because some characters' behaviors are influenced by it quite strongly. The representation is generally lovely. It doesn't feel overdone, but there is asexuality, sapphic romance, background enbies, PTSD and abuse survivors, and general neurodiversity everywhere you turn. All the characters have personality, not just the protagonist. Even characters you initially think will be one-off slime food can turn out to be endearing. I'm not usually one for gore at all -- the extent of what I can handle in horror is generally vampires a la Dracula. Body horror especially freaks me out, and as someone who has trauna from giving birth, I am extra wary of pregnancy/childbirth stuff in fiction. Despite that, this book keeps it lighthearted and campy enough that it didn't bother me, and I am so glad I gave it the chance. There is more talk of eating people and fantasizing about laying eggs in people than actually happens. There is certainly a lot of shape-shifting slime moster growing tentacles or limbs and adjusting "borrowed" bones, from people she killed for justifyable reasons, but it is funnier and weirder than it is horrifying. And when some of those bones are stolen so that the protagonist is able to dance with her sad girlfriend? All is forgiven. This is definitely more fast-burn than slow-burn romance, and one could question the believability of some characters' reactions to certain events, but I think it is justified in the story being told. If you want a realistic slow-burn, this isn't it -- but if that makes you skip this book, you're missing out. ["

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May 29, 2025 Verified Purchase

Danielle

Loved~

"Great audio! Was so fun to listen to how snarky Sheshesehn was! 4.5 Stars! This was SO CUTE! I really enjoyed how in-depth everything Shesheshen did was described.. it made everything so much more interesting. I absolutely loved Homily as well. Another girl that deserved more in her life, and got it in the end! This was such a fun read. ["

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April 28, 2026 Verified Purchase

Kindle Customer

Easily my favourite romance novel

"This review alludes to light spoilers "Someone You Can Build a Nest In" is a book that follows Shesheshen, an autistic coded shapeshifter, as she deals with difficult trials in life that I found very relatable as an ace trans person, such as discovering what parts of a relationship do you actually want, as opposed to what you thought you're supposed to want, struggling with the effort it takes to hide that your body isn't like most people's, debating at what stage of a new relationship are you supposed to tell your girlfriend you murdered and ate her brother, wrestling with the dangers of narratives you construct for yourself, and more. My main worry when I started this book was that it'll turn out to be too gimmicky, and prove to have nothing of value other than its concept. This, luckily, turned out to be false. Everything from the characters to the plot (which turned out to be more interesting than I expected) and the writing itself was thoroughly enjoyable. Shesheshen is amazing. As a neurodivergent person myself, I couldn't help but relate to her opinions of talking and human interactions in general. I really appreciate how the book makes it clear she's not a very good person, but still allows you to root for her. Her perspective on her (and other people's) body is pretty creative. While the shapeshifter is not a new monster, this interpretation of it is, again, creative. Her struggles with her body was one of my favourite parts of the book. Homily was a pleasant surprise. Don't have too much to say about her, but she turned out to be a lot more interesting than I anticipated. I didn't like her as much as Shesheshen, but I liked her. The romance between the two showed me that I like romance stories a lot more when the POV is ace. Usually, the sexual attraction makes me really uncomfortable, and I can't help but roll my eyes at dramatic kissing descriptions. Shesheshen's and Homily's one kiss is my favourite kiss in fiction, and maybe my favourite moment in the book. I also really love the cute things they tell each other, like “If you like me being me... then I will try to keep it up. So long as you keep being you.” Lastly, I do have a few nitpicks. The main one is the ending. It's not bad, it's just too focused. We got quite a long ending, and I do like that, but I felt like we could have learned more about what happened around them. What happened to the people? How is the town like? Where are the rest of the surviving characters? How does everyone perceive the events of the stories? I would totally understand leaving some of these things open, but I feel like I have nothing to go on, which is a shame. The second main nitpick is something that might be a bit of a hot take, but I don't like the use of modern queer language in settings like these. Don't get me wrong. I love the representation. The inclusion of random NB extras, and the acknowledgement of allosexual people as a group and not as "the whole". But the modern terms really didn't fit the vibes of the story. The power of representation comes from authentic portrayals of the experiences, and not from the right terms being used. Overall, Someone You Can Build a Nest In has easily become one of my favourite books, and I can't wait for more from John Wishwell. ["

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April 25, 2024 Verified Purchase

Mary Soon Lee

Strange, cheerfully gruesome, affectionate story about a monster.

"This is a queer, strange, violent, affectionate novel with a monster as its main character. There's humor and villainy, horror and romance. I'm not really the right reader for the cheerful level of gore and oozing fluids in the book, but I liked the sweetly awkward friendship and the humor. Here is one brief sample of the humor, the closing sentences of chapter one: "Those were not the words of a worthy father. They were the words of breakfast." Keeping this short, because I am on vacation. Call it three and a half out of five biting stars for me. Likely a four or five star read for those with more appetite for the gruesome. About my reviews: I try to review every book I read, including those that I don't end up enjoying. The reviews are not scholarly, but just indicate my reaction as a reader, reading being my addiction. I am miserly with 5-star reviews; 4 stars means I liked a book very much; 3 stars means I liked it; 2 stars means I didn't like it (though often the 2-star books are very popular with other readers and/or are by authors whose other work I've loved). ["

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July 26, 2024 Verified Purchase